I have trained in martial arts for a very long time, but I haven’t limited myself to just that. I have also trained in counter-terrorism, weapons handling, firearms, and security. My work experience includes roles in the security field, collaborating with police and military forces. From these diverse experiences, I have gained knowledge from all over the world.
I have been recognized internationally for my efforts, receiving awards from police, military, and prison institutions globally. While this may seem like bragging or arrogance, it is far from it. I would actually be much more comfortable keeping this information to myself, sharing it only with my dear mother, may she rest in peace. However, I feel it is necessary for your sake.
Many years ago, I received three comments that changed my perspective. Until that point, I had adhered to the teachings of rabbinical academies: be humble, be modest, and don’t talk about your accomplishments. This principle is a part of me and always will be, but I’ve come to realize that excessive modesty can lead to impoverishment—not only financially but also in your ability to help others. If you never speak of your skills, you won’t have the chance to share them with those who may need assistance.
Imagine going for a job interview for a position you are highly qualified for. If your resume is nearly blank because you don’t want to come across as boastful, how do you think that would go? When the interviewer asks about your skills, if you respond with, “I have no particular skills; I’m just average,” it’s unlikely you will get the job.
Your weapon is your skills.
I want to discuss concealed weapons from both defensive and offensive perspectives. However, before doing so, I need to emphasize that just as you shouldn’t conceal your weapons, you shouldn’t hide your skills either. While modesty has its place, there are times when it’s important to highlight your abilities. At a social event, there’s no need to announce, “Hey everyone, I have a black belt!” That would be ridiculous. On the other hand, if you keep your skills a secret, you may miss opportunities to work or assist others if that’s your intention. It’s essential to have the wisdom to know when to be silent and when to speak.
**How Concealed?**
Experts, whether they are terrorists or law enforcement officers, are trained to look for concealed weapons on individuals. This is something we learned in counter-terrorism training. There are signs to watch for in a person’s demeanor—how they walk, talk, and observe their surroundings. When security asks seemingly “silly” questions, they aren’t just looking for your answers; they are observing your uncontrollable body language, your eyes, and your hands. An expert will scrutinize you closely. Therefore, regardless of whether you’re in law enforcement, a criminal, or a terrorist, you must ask yourself: How well concealed is my weapon? This consideration is crucial.
As self-defense instructors, we teach that if you find yourself involved in a confrontation or a mugging, always assume there is a concealed weapon or possibly more than one. That’s why grappling on the ground can be dangerous and should be avoided at all costs.
Today, there are newer methods for concealing a weapon and various advantages and disadvantages. Open carry allows for quicker access, but it is also more visible. In contrast, a gun hidden under a shirt or coat may be safer but more complex to reach quickly. There is much to contemplate.
I want to stress that just because your weapon is concealed does not guarantee it is truly hidden. To believe otherwise would be a mistake. It’s a game of cat and mouse between the homeowner and a robber. While you’re thinking ahead, so is the intruder. Criminals and terrorists are aware that people carry concealed weapons, and they look for signs and clues indicating this.
**Become the Concealed Weapon**
There is another type of concealed weapon: ourselves—our skills and our ability to handle complex, violent situations. When I enter the mall in Maaleh Adumim, I am often asked, “Any weapons?” Sometimes, I humorously reply, “Just me; I don’t need a license for that.” We can become the best possible concealed weapon, but even this should remain concealed. Itay Gil advised that if someone gives off the “look” of a fighter, they should do their best to hide that appearance. The bad guys are also observing us and looking for potential “troublemakers” who might thwart their plans. Often, the individuals who appear to be the toughest are the first targets to be eliminated.
**Lesson:** If you seem capable of resistance or radiate leadership qualities, you might be the first person targeted. Conceal your presence! Be a concealed weapon rather than an openly carried one. For this reason, we were advised not to wear a “Krav Maga Instructor” T-shirt in areas where trouble might arise. While this could be a great conversation starter in your local mall or a way to connect with like-minded individuals, it may also attract unwanted attention.